by Mimi Tram
Disclaimer: I do not list 97 reasons in this article but I’ve got your attention now – right?
Perhaps I do not know quite that many reasons to book an escort but I want you to know that not every booking requires us to get naked. Each client has his own reason for engaging the service of an escort. It is not simply a biological urge to have an orgasm. There are usually additional reasons to share time with a woman. As a sex professional, it is important for us to understand some of those reasons.
Reason #1 Conversation skills
Talking and listening are important skills for every companion. In the case of an escort, these skills are probably the most important. Clients traveling far from home or on an extended trip miss having a quiet social talk with a young lady. A sense of humor and knowing a few funny stories are as important as a slinky black low cut dress. Judging by the impact of the #MeToo movement, reason #1 may be a big reason that I get a few more “conversation bookings” this year.
So far, clients who book me and you for only conversation are rare. Most often, you will use this skill to enhance the intimacy of the session. Clients may be shy and reluctant to tell you directly what acts they enjoy. Using your experience and listening will help you figure out what he wants to try. Maybe you will know even before he does. When you know what he is looking for, confirm to him you will provide that service. Establish your consent with the client.
Reason #2 Private versus Social Event
Look and behave appropriately at a social event or the company party. Listen carefully and follow the client requests for dress. Asks him what he thinks casual dress looks like. Eurpoean clients may expect a more dressy level of casual dress compared to a Canadian or American client.
It is usually wise to make a plan with the client about typical conversation topics. For example, the key decision is whether your client needs to keep your true profession confidential. This avoids the awkward silence in the conversation. However, most sensible people will know your profession but choose to not inform the emperor that he is naked. An invisible boundary will protect the client from a potentially embarassing direction of the conversation. Watch out – alcohol quickly weakens that boundary.
Reason #3 Acting the Part
We have the honor of brightening the day of another person with our company. Our actions with clients in public can make him feel like a superman, make him stand taller and radiate confidence. So lay on the public displays of affection. Cling onto his arm, feed him grapes (peeled are the best), steal sips from his drink. Make the guys at the table next to you stare, sigh, and say, “Wow”, all night long.
For the duration of the booking time, you are his girl. Act according to his expectations of a date. A little bit of listening and keenly tuned naughtiness is critical.